Opposite
Hate isn’t the opposite of love. Hating your Ex doesn’t mean you don’t love him/her anymore. The fact that your giving him/her such intense emotion means he/she has an effect on you and he/she is still worth your attention.
Apathy is the opposite of love. You can only say you’ve fallen out of love when you no longer care what he/she says or does.
So how can you stop love?. Unfortunately, you can’t. Love dies on it’s own. You’ve just wake up one day and realize your over him/her. Don’t surprise and it’ll come naturally…